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“Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don’t Love Her, I’m Not Proud Of Her” – Man cries out


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I was on Nairaland forum and i saw this story. A man needs your advice, he impregnated a lady and he claims he’s not proud of her to marry her or present her as his.

He’s presently in a dilemma and he needs your opinion. No insult please. Let’s be cordial.

Read what he had to say below…

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn’t help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn’t use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn’t seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with. 

What do i do? What do i do? I don’t want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don’t genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?


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